{"id":16289,"date":"2025-01-09T04:12:56","date_gmt":"2025-01-09T04:12:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/opensanghafoundation.org\/newsite\/?p=16289"},"modified":"2025-01-10T01:33:58","modified_gmt":"2025-01-10T01:33:58","slug":"happiness-suffering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/opensanghafoundation.org\/test\/theta-pati\/happiness-suffering\/","title":{"rendered":"Happiness &#038; Suffering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Theta Pati<\/p><h6>&#8220;Ask yourself&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>&#8216;What exactly does my HAPPINESS depend on?&#8217;<\/p>\n<p> Normally, people will allow their happiness to depend on a whole lot of conditions.<\/p>\n<p>And the more you think about those conditions, the more you realize that they&#8217;re totally beyond your control: the economy, the climate, the political situation, the continued beating of certain hearts, the stability of the ground beneath your feet, all of which are very uncertain.<\/p>\n<p>So what do you do?<\/p>\n<p>You learn to look inside.<br \/>\nTry to create a sense of wellbeing that can come simply with being with the breath.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this isn&#8217;t the total cure, it&#8217;s the path toward the cure.&#8221; <\/p>\n<p>~ Thanissaro Bhikkhu<br \/>\n&#8220;Fears&#8221; Meditations1<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>Good question, let me evaluate it too and share it with others&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Having discerned any wordly happiness as changing with delusion and depending on conditions based on ignorance&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>How can I cling to it ?<br \/>\nHow can i crave for it ?<br \/>\nHow can i consider it real ?<\/p>\n<p>Happiness is not different from suffering, both give results involving the 6 senses and they can be both perceived as pleasing or unpleasing, it only depends on the individual view or habit and on the clinging to it as a craving. <\/p>\n<p>However, worldly suffering is felt as real by most and it affects many in different ways, unless the mind is duly trained with aware mindfulness and discernment based on right evaluation.<\/p>\n<p>Then, most do not know how to train or are not in the conditions to understand and suffering becomes the main problem in their life.<\/p>\n<p>Understanding the nature of suffering, it also means to see its root, that is ignorance, and how it affects us and others around us.<\/p>\n<p>Once the root is understood, then Metta and Karuna become the eyes looking at the living beings in the world, resulting in the uprooting of greed and hatred too. <\/p>\n<p>And when the wisdom born from mindful evaluation increases, then discernment takes to see the real happiness, totally void of conceit and craving, i.e. Mudita&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Mudita has different intensity or levels :<br \/>\nthe 1st is to see others happy or not suffering;<br \/>\nthe 2nd is to see that others ask questions about suffering or about the spiritual path for the sake of understanding;<br \/>\nthe 3rd is to know about anyone putting effort in the training of taming their mind;<br \/>\nthe 4th and higher is when others get any better understanding of the Dhamma or, even better, when attaining any spiritual goal on the Noble Path. <\/p>\n<p>Mudita does not depend on conditions,<br \/>\nit is not a craving,<br \/>\nthere is nothing to cling to,<br \/>\nit is void of self and conceit,<br \/>\nits nature never changes,<br \/>\nit is simply the pure eternal happiness that everyone should look for,<br \/>\nbecause it is outside of kamma and of becoming.<\/p>\n<p>\u2764\ufe0f\ud83d\ude4f\u2764\ufe0f<\/h6>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:uc.italy@yahoo.it\">Email<\/a><\/p><p>Views: 4<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Theta Pati&#8220;Ask yourself&#8230; &#8216;What exactly does my HAPPINESS depend on?&#8217; Normally, people will allow their happiness to depend on a whole lot of conditions. 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