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Check out this website that I put together a while ago to aid in the development of Anapanasati(Mindfulness with breathing)
https://djbennison.github.io/Mindfulness-with-breathing-Online/
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Talking about a meditation technique such as anapanasati.

If there’s car burning outside. You can’t help but to observe with curiosity. But when the car you observe is “yours”. You begun to act frantic and panic. The “self” is suffering. But when is seen through as “not self” . You begin to enjoy the show ” wow, what’s happening? What’s the commotion?”
This life becomes a journey of joyful investigation. No more “poor me” mindset. Is just this. You become a moving target. Getting ourselves outside the shooting range. No me there. Everything is just happening by itself.
Wholesome change of just seeing what is happening with a smile. Relax. Can’t catch dukkha. See dukkha and start getting out the way. Not by aversion but wisdom.
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Waxhaw Luke
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Alexander Hipple
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Dhammarato sa
The point is that the mind can change with right noble consistent effort, depression is nothing more than depressing thoughts. It’s inside the mind not out there in society.
8:37 AM
The point of managing the spiritual disease is not to just feel better it is a full cure. One must practice continuously to remove unwholesome thoughts untill they don’t come up anymore.
9:08 AM
yes, the point is consistent practice of removing unwholesome though, when ever they come. the more you practice the better skilled you get at seeing them and stopping them, for a while as the skill grows, one can see better and it looks like so many , that’s because we see better. and as the skills grow more, the unwholesome thoughts become less frequent, but one must still practice and soon all those unwholesome thoughts are replaced before they are full formed. ,
when someone is hungry that is not depression, when no food, that is not depression, it is just hunger. Go find food happily. enjoy it all the more due to hunger.
when you say depressed that misses the point, that means a personality trait, but personalities and not fixed they move around because of many influences. (hunger is not depression) One can change personality by changing thoughts, so there is no such person who is depressed only folks who have unwholesome depressing thoughts, while he/she is watching a movie completely absorbed in the move, no depressive unwholesome thoughts, only laughter at funny movie then and there that one is not depressed, only when the mind moves from movie to “poor me, I have no food” does depression set in. But depression does not set in, its just unwholesome depressive thought fill the mind.
when someone is hungry that is not depression, when no food, that is not depression, it is just hunger. Go find food happily. enjoy it all the more due to hunger.
when you say depressed that misses the point, that means a personality trait, but personalities and not fixed they move around because of many influences. (hunger is not depression) One can change personality by changing thoughts, so there is no such person who is depressed only folks who have unwholesome depressing thoughts, while he/she is watching a movie completely absorbed in the move, no depressive unwholesome thoughts, only laughter at funny movie then and there that one is not depressed, only when the mind moves from movie to “poor me, I have no food” does depression set in. But depression does not set in, its just unwholesome depressive thought fill the mind.
this is a common issue in the west. Many times it is heard “I have wholesome thoughts but they don’t work because I don’t believe them.” That is not because of the wholesome thoughts are not true, but the student fails to see the thoughts right after the wholesome thoughts. The “I don’t believe it” is the new unwholesome thought that is not seen. They see wholesome thought as new, from the outside and not my thought, not me. Then the next thought “I don’t believe it” is old familiar seen as coming from the inside, it’s my thought, it is me the real me. But both the wholesome and the unwholesome thoughts are not me not mine, they are just thoughts. The student needs to be watchful as to what thoughts are seen as me, my thoughts, for they are the most unwholesome and often follow the wholesome thoughts.
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alexander.hipple@gmail.com
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alexander.hipple@gmail.com
So now I Wake up, take a look, make a change. I stop right here, right now, whatever thing I am doing, I can remember to consciously stop and see: what is happening right now? How do I feel? Which thoughts am I having? Then I enter the doors of the senses, how do my clothes feel on my skin? The feet on the floor? The butt on the chair? Can I take some deep breaths and remind myself how I can feel good with very little, because I believe that is enough, that I have arrived, that there is nothing to do and nowhere to go? I can be alive here and now, I let the chest expand with inhalation and contract with exhalation, such a gift that it is! Feeling safe, secure, wholesome on the inside, and satisfied. Then first jhāna arises, I come to the state of the plateau, my homebase, the always on time train of the present moment. I let go of the worries, the neediness, the complaining, and the wanting for something more, for something next. Here the fire of the wholesome has started, from a little sparkle of intention, now the logs are on fire and it warms me up, what a joy to nourish it and keep it alive! I will abide in the wholesome, I will get to know my mind and its mysteries because from here everything looks more clear and the clouds of doubt are far away, blown by the winds of conscious decision. Right effort and awesome thoughts in line, born one after another, from the womb of nourishment and awareness of my sweetest behalf, the one I call when I need to come to understand that this moment is all I have and I will be relaxed and chilled, swimming in an ocean of wholesomeness. My safe environment is a state of mind that doesn't need boundaries to be protected, that I don't have to put a guard on, that I don't have to defend. It's an expanded light of softness that embraces all there is right here, right now. Such a delight to abide in first jhāna. Such a delight to be here and now. In noble wisdom I trust, and I let myself flow in the stream of the never-ending present moment.
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Callum
I walk down the street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I fall in. I am lost… I am hopeless. It isn’t my fault. It takes forever to find a way out.
Chapter II:
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I pretend I don’t see it. I fall in again. I can’t believe I am in this same place. But it isn’t my fault. It still takes a long time to get out.
Chapter III:
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it there. I still fall in… it’s a habit… but, my eyes are open. I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately.
Chapter IV:
I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it.
Chapter V:
I walk down another street.
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dhammadasa
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Dhamma Dasa
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Corey Lupo
I will tell you what is going on around me right now. I am sitting at home, it’s late at night. It’s a bit cold, but the heater will kick on soon enough. And I can always grab a blanket. There is a light next to me, and a wood wall behind the computer. I feel good.
Now that we have a little bit of raw data to examine. Let’s consider why it’s important to be here now.
Our memory is fallible, but what you are aware of and can sense around you right now is freely available. It’s a direct experience. No need to remember anything, no need to rely on memory. Not until we really want to or feel like it at least.
If you try and hold on to a single thought… lets try and do a little peter pan exercise, think of a single happy thought. and try to hold on to it.
Of course you’ll probably want to close your eyes, since it’s easier that way. But even with eyes closed, it’s quickly obvious just how difficult and slippery memory is. How rapidly a thought can fade into memory, and how hard we have to focus in order for it not to.
But when you open your eyes, and you just look around. When you are just aware of what is here now, you can feel there is no strain. And there is no fallibility like with memory… lol, well if you are the philosopher type you might draw swords with me there on the “no fallibility” statement. But let me have it, and I will concede that the sense are…pretty much infallible 🙂
And if you are skilled, you should also be able to feel peace. Memory is where most of our pain comes from. Books have been written about pain, so I won’t go much into it. But just try to analyze pain while you are practicing these things we talked about. Try to see, in real time and direct experience, how your ability to be here now is directly related to the pain felt from memory. The more skilled you are at being here now, the less pain you feel from memory.
-Corey Lupo
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David James Bennison
The cause of dissatisfaction is wanting unwisely. When we stop wanting unwisely dissatisfaction ends.
The method to stop wanting unwisely is The Noble eightfold path.
This includes the skills to Remember, look, and change.
Remember to look at what you are doing and make a wholesome change.
These 3 qualities run circles around each other and the rest of the path.
Practice remembering in or out breathing. To develop R.L.C (Remember, Look, Change) as well as the whole Noble Eightfold Method. Remembering the in and out breath as an anchor to wake up, look, and direct the mind away from the unwholesome and to the wholesome.
Getting into seclusion helps develop these skills, into a spot that is safe. Makes it easy to talk yourself into feeling safe, secure, and satisfied when it’s the reality. It’s very beneficial to develop these skills because the mind can run off into Dissatisfaction Town very quickly, so it’s of great benefit to keep the practice in mind and return home here and now often.
One wholesome thought after another leads to
A wholesome attitude.
Then the mind becomes unified, whole, and Free from dissatisfaction.
When the mind is whole we speak, act, and live kindly and skillfully.
I have seen this work again and again directly. I have full confidence in the method and the Four Noble Truths. They are just that Noble and True!
You can do this! Simply remember to look, make wholesome Change, and Congratulate yourself for doing so! Recognizing that this truly is enough, dissatisfaction ends!
Thank you, Buddha, Dhamma, and Sangha.
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